"And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord." (Eph. 6:4)

Dr. Charlie Shedd held a contest called, "One Neat Dad." He asked contestants to send in letters recommending their dad for this great honor. Here's a list of the 10 most appreciated qualities for "One Neat Dad."

1. He takes time for me.

2. He listens to me.

3. He plays with me.

4. He invites me to go places with him.

5. He lets me help him.

6. He treats my mother well.

7. He lets me say what I think.

8. He is nice to my friends.

9. He only punishes me when I deserve it.

10. He is not afraid to admit when he is wrong.

"Time" was the most appreciated trait of the "one neat dad" as shown by the above qualities in one through five. Fathers need to spend time with their children, bringing them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.