"...That they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed." (Titus 2:4-5)

Advice From The Other Woman:

"Dear Woman: Your husband became greatly enamored of me because I paid attention to him, which obviously you haven't done in quite some time. I mean real attention, complete with stimulating conversation and verbal recognition of his extraordinary qualities. I made him feel alive and important. He believes you prefer the company of your sisters, your mother, and your woman friends to him. When you need a man's viewpoint, you ask your father.

I am not going to see your husband again, lady, because he likes me too much already, and I am no home wrecker. But I believe you should take a good, hard look at that wonderful man of yours, and come up with some evidence of appreciation - before you lose him." (Letter to Ann Landers, via The Challenge Of Being A Wife, p. 68-69)