(2) Don't judge another's heart. Christians should be careful not to attribute evil motives to the
words and actions of others. "Judge not, that you be not judged." (Matt. 7:1). If we hear or
witness some unseemly thing done by a brother, instead of being quick and harsh in our judgment,
we should give him the benefit of the doubt. "...Love thinks no evil." (1 Cor. 13:5). Some things
are to be labeled as "unwise," but not as "sin."
(3) Don't bind your convictions on others. What may be a mater of doctrine to one might be a
matter of opinion to another. The weak brother in Rom. 14 believed that he should eat only
herbs; it was a "matter of faith" to him (Rom. 14:2). Paul showed in Rom. 14 (also in 1 Cor. 8
and 10) that in such matters, one is not to bind his personal convictions on others. Furthermore,
one brother may be convinced that another brother sinned in a particular action and needs to
repent. However, that brother might be equally convinced that he has not sinned. One should not
bind his own conscience on another.
(4) Don't build up a faction. On any given controversy or issue in the local church, as you have
opportunity state your conviction, but don't be trying to build up your side by going from house
to house or by calling on the phone. Working in secrecy is the tactic of the evil man (Psalm
101:5; 2 Pet. 2:1). It puts those who differ at an unfair disadvantage because it does not give
equal time and opportunity. It is not practicing the golden rule (Matt. 7:12). Likewise, one has
no right to take the problems of one church to another. This destroys God's plan for
independence and autonomy. It is foolish for outsiders to meddle in strife that doesn't belong to
them (Prov. 26;17).
(5) Try to hold it together. All Christians should try to keep the church togther and not pull it
apart. Instead of leaving and pulling off a group, members of the church should stay together and
reconcile their differences. "Therefore let us pursue the things which make for peace and the
things by which one may edify another." (Rom. 14:19). There is no such thing as a perfect
church and the Lord expects Christians to stay together and work out their problems.
(6) Withdraw from the factious. "Reject a divisive man after the first and second admonition, knowing that such a person is warped and sinning, being self-condemned." (Titus 3:10-11). "A factious man after a first and second admonition refuse..." (Titus 3:10 ASV). "Cast out the scoffer, and contention will leave; yes, strife and reproach will cease." (Prov. 22:10). Within time, the righteous will know who the real troublemakers are. They must be withdrawn from; otherwise, they will eventually divide the church, taking many souls with them.