(2) What kind of character shall I develop? "A good name is better than precious ointment..."
(Eccl. 7:1). "A good name is to be chosen rather than great riches, loving favor rather than silver
and gold." (Prov. 22:1). It takes no planting, watering, or cultivating to grow weeds, nor does it
take effort to grow worthless character. Careful attention and diligent effort are required for
noble character. Young people, strive to build a good reputation by purity and godliness and by
being an example to the believers (1 Tim. 4:12).
(3) Whom shall I choose as my associates? "Do not be deceived: Evil company corrupts good
habits." (1 Cor. 15:33). "Evil companionships corrupt good morals." (1 Cor. 15:33 ASV). The
counterpart of this is also true: Good companionships promote good morals. Young people
should avoid the crowd that drinks, dances, tells dirty stories, uses curse words, and laughs and
pokes fun at people who serve God.
(4) What will be my life's occupation? Much depends on the answer of this question. In far too
many instances, though, too much emphasis is placed on money. "For what profit is it to a man if
he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul?" (Matt. 16:26). Furthermore, one must be
careful to choose an occupation that is honorable and legitimate. Dishonest gains and get rich
quick schemes must be avoided. This may mean a smaller income; however, "Better is a little
with the fear of the Lord, than great treasure with trouble." (Prov. 15:16); and, "Better is a little
with righteousness than great revenues without right." (Prov. 16:8).
(5) Whom shall I marry? If there is ever a place for clear minds and true ideas, it is in marriage.
God's laws must be understood, respected, and heeded (Matt. 5:32; 19:9). Marriage is for life
(Rom. 7:2-3; 1 Cor. 7:39). The best advice I can give to young people in choosing a mate is,
"Marry a Christian." Marry someone who will encourage you in the way of salvation. If that boy
or girl cannot be converted before marriage, they probably will never be, and problems are only
multiplied when children come along.
(6) What shall I do with my life in relation to God? If you have never obeyed the gospel, you should answer, "Shall I become a Christian?" Jesus said, "For whoever is ashamed of Me and My words, of him the Son of Man will be ashamed..." (Luke 9:26). If you are already a Christian, you should answer, "Shall I remain faithful?" Jesus said, "And because lawlessness will abound, the love of many will grow cold. But he who endures to the end shall be saved." (Matt. 24:12-13).